Women in Politics: ‘To be rather than to seem’
Posted on October 20, 2025 by Brionna Dallara
As part of Xpress‘ annual Women in Business issue, we reached out to elected officials and municipal leaders seeking their stories about influential role models, lived experiences and obstacles they’ve faced. Below is our exchange with Terri Wells, member of the Buncombe County Board of Commissioners.
Xpress: Who were the role models that inspired you to seek elected office?
Wells: Throughout my life, I have enjoyed the good fortune to be surrounded by a community of hardworking, creative and caring people dedicated to building a better future. I saw many examples of how to serve and lead, and I decided it was important that I represent those values that helped shape my life in order to ensure an even stronger community for our future generations.
How has your lived experience informed the way you lead?
I have always been curious by nature and interested in understanding others’ perspectives, and throughout my life, I’ve paid careful attention to how things get accomplished or derailed. My goal as a leader is to understand the challenges and the various perspectives while working toward the best outcomes for our community.
What obstacles do women still face in seeking elected positions?
On the whole, I don’t think there are insurmountable obstacles for women who are interested in elected office. I think the key things are to know who you are and why you are doing it, and then stay true to it. As our state motto emphasizes: Esse quam videri — to be rather than to seem.